Unmasced: The Effects of the Media’s Portrayal of Masculinity on Children
Abstract
I am studying portrayals of masculinity in the media and how they affect children because I want to find out how the societal masculine construct is imprinted on children, in order to guide parents on how to address and prevent the emotional harm of children and fight toxic masculinity. Masculinity has always reflected the value of dominance. Values differ throughout the world, but in general, men are seen as the dominant sex and many cultures are set up as patriarchies. Even to this day, most world leaders are men. Women who occupy these roles are often critiqued as being “too emotional,” which only furthers the idea that a man cannot show emotion and must always be rational and detached. The most significant aspect of the Western construct of masculinity is “success.” Men are expected to be the breadwinners and financially successful. Money is power and a strong man will find a way to succeed by whatever means necessary. Physique is another variable that separates “strong” and “weak” men in a power hierarchy. Physical development is sought after for social sexual benefit more so than bodily health. Men who do not meet the social standards of success often seek to exert control over minorities, such as women, to feel powerful. Feminine traits remain the antithesis of what a man should embody, and pop culture is full of references to hegemonic masculinity and the “ideal” man. In the West, men were the lead roles in films until recent decades. Parents might not purposely support toxic standards for men, but these messages are reaching children as they are immersed in a world of content. Through my research, I hope to help parents intercede and open the conversation about gender expression. By creating this awareness, I want parents to understand that if they cannot talk openly about their own fears, uncertainties, and disappointments, then they should not expect it of their children. Parents are the first role models children may have and so it is important that they challenge their own expectations of how men and women should act, encourage healthy behaviors, and support personal expression.
Keywords
Masculinity, Gender, Sexuality, Emotion, Body Image, Branding, Toxic Masculinity